Forget chocolates. Forget flowers. Forget jewelry. It’s 2018, it’s time for you and your partner to try something new and exciting. You’ve talked about it, and now it’s time to actually experience it, but where do you start?

Looking for a partner for a threesome can be daunting. You don’t want to ask friends, or exes, or someone on the street. It has to be right for you and your partner. The best solution? Hire a companion, and follow these simple steps to ensure that your first threesome will not be your last.

The Perfect Fit

The first step is to find the right companion. Whether you are looking for a man or a woman to join you, it has to be the right one for you. The two of you can work together to find someone that fits both your tastes, someone that excites you. However, after you have looked over their bios and pictures, look to see if they list a couples service. Many providers will have it listed clearly. If you do not see it, do not pressure them. This is a chance for you and your partner to connect in a higher way. If your provider is not comfortable, it will take away from your experience.

The Perfect Night

So you’ve found someone beautiful to join you. A perfect match. Before you contact them, think about what you want to experience. What you don’t. Share your thoughts with your partner. Listen to theirs. Have a conversation about your wants and desires. This not only sets ground rules but can provide you with insight into each other’s desires. Isn’t that what Valentine’s Day, or any special day, is all about? Deepening the romance between you and the one you adore.

You know each other intimately, and you have to trust each other. Make up a subtle phrase that you will use if you’re uncomfortable. Something like “I’m cold” or “I need some water” would work. This phrase allows the two of you to check in with each other without any awkward interruption with your provider.

Once you have contacted your companion, they can join in on the conversation. Start with a phone call to get to know each other and talk about your meeting, familiarize yourselves with each other and that will get rid of some of the jitters. Will your companion be staying for some lounging in bed? Will you and your partner prefer to be alone after? Or will the three of you need to work off some of that energy out on the town?

You don’t want to have to think about anything but your partner and your companion during your threesome. Planning out these details before, as well as what will happen after, takes the pressure off. Without that stress, you can connect with your love in a deeper way, and more importantly have a great time.

A threesome can be an amazing experience that helps take your connection to the next level. You will learn more about yourself, your partner, and your relationship. Leave the boring heart candy box in the trash. Makes this Valentine’s Day one to remember.

Made your choice? I’d love to join you and your partner this Valentine’s Day. To get started, send me your references or work verification for both the both of you. I’d also like to know a little bit about you two when you’d like to meet, and in what location. To ensure that we all have enough time to enjoy each others company, I have a two hour minimum with couples. For rates, please check my website. I look forward to meeting you both.

XOXO,
Lillian Warren